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| UK vs. UL football at Commonwealth, 2005 |
So it's no secret that I kinda, sorta have something of a thingamajig for my sister's four kids. Cammy Doodle was the first. Born with a headful of hair and a piercing shriek that could cut the glass of his bedroom window, Camden was the first (little) man I ever loved. I fell hard; I fell fast; I fell completely.
It's never been all that hard for any of the kids to get whatever they wanted out of me. I've never had much money, but what I HAVE had has been spent on them. Happily and without hesitation. $6 dog-shaped cupcake for lunch? Yum-mo! $27.50 to ride three poorly-constructed throw-up thrills at a carnival in the mall parking lot? Let's do it! $75 to get your face painted up like a pirate's? I don't know how I'll make my rent, but ABSO-SMURF-LY.
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| Disney 2007 |
In fact, last nite, Jeremy and I took three of the Four I Adore to Cold Stone (Payton stayed home, choosing solitary control of the TV over ice cream). Afterwards, we ambled through a gift shop and came across a stuffed, great white shark. Camden and I both went through a raging great white shark phase, so when we saw it, I said, "Camden, if they'd had that when you were a kid, I'd totally have bought it for you." He responded, "When I was a kid, you'd totally have bought me anything I wanted. In fact, you'd STILL buy me anything I wanted."
To be honest, the whole subject of "buying things for Camden" has been a hot topic, since we were in Nashville last week. Cam and I were strolling Jones through the hotel lobby, and Cam remarked - for the 13,000th time - that his baby cousin "NEEDED" some Nikes. Specifically, his baby cousin needed some LeBron James Nikes, and oh yeah, while I was at it, why didn't I buy a pair for the first of the Four I Adore?
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| Chuck E. Cheese's - 2005 |
Now, I am about as concerned with the brand of my 7 month old's footwear as I am with the brand of my 7 month old's clothing. In other words, I am NOT AT ALL concerned with brands, because whether I spend $3 or $3000 on an outfit for Jones, it still ends up either covered in spit up or soaked by a leaky diaper that I didn't change soon enough. Why in the name of good stewardship would I spend a small fortune on the wardrobe of a mess-making machine?
But I digress ...
For my favorite almost-14-year-old, though, the name on his basketball shoes becomes the name on the back of his basketball jersey. Much as I love Camden, though, $300 for "LeBrons," as he calls them, is even more than Aunta can spend, though, as I told him, "I DEFINITELY would, if I could."
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| Maui - 2009 |
Thankfully - for the sake of my marriage - I cannot.
Camden, on the other hand, cannot stop talking about how much Jones "NEEDS" Nikes, so today, he came in from being out and handed me a bag. In it was a pair of shoes that he'd bought WITH HIS VERY OWN MONEY - NOT mine; HIS. NOT Mom's; HIS. Apparently, Mom had taken the kids to the mall; Cam said he needed to walk down the hall for a minute. She didn't know where he was going, but when he came back, he'd made his purchase. In so doing, he made my day and, with his thoughtfulness and generosity, he gave his little cousin more than just a pair of Nikes.
He gave Jones some
very big shoes to fill.
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Thank you, Cammy Doodle. I love you to the moon and back again! 44 million kisses, K |